The Kissing Hand

                           by Audrey Penn and illustrated by Ruth E. Harper and Nancy M. Leak
                                                        Washington, DC:  Child & Family Press (1993)

As the foreword to this story discusses, children are often faced with difficult situations that they may not know how to handle.  In this gentle and love-filled picturebook, young Chester Raccoon is nervous about going to school for the first time and leaving his mom behind.  These nerves are a great example for young readers because Chester mentions reasons that many children can understand:  he wants to play with friends and toys, read books, and swing on swings.  His mother reassures him first by pointing out all the fun things he will get to do in school and then sharing with Chester the secret of "the kissing hand," which is a kiss in the middle of his palm that reminds him, whenever he feels sad or lonely, that she loves him.  

The illustrations match the text well.  Even though the characters are raccoons, Harper and Leak manage to portray real emotions on the pages.  Chester has tears in his eyes, for instance, when he is initially telling his mom about his fears.  Later, when he learns about the kissing hand, both Chester and his mother are looking down at his palm in a way that conveys comfort and understanding.  Mrs. Raccoon is drawn in a motherly fashion:  her arms are around Chester when he is sad and her hand forms the sign for "I love you" as he runs off to meet his classmates.  These small details add to the experience of the story by reinforcing the idea of familial stability even when children are uncertain.

Chester's emotions can also remind students that being nervous before school is natural and okay; many other children are probably feeling the same way.  Mrs. Raccoon's gentle reaction to Chester's fears can reassure children that they will have support when they face a new situation.

My favorite part of the story comes just before Chester runs off to school.  His mother has already shared the Kissing  Hand with him and told him that she loves him.  In return, he kisses her hand to remind her that she, too, can be comforted by his love.  A sentimental story about the power of love, The Kissing Hand is a great read for the beginning of the school year to young children to remind them that though they might be experiencing something new, the love of a family member or friend can help them through it.